Update: This post is superseded by my newer work on procrastination.

I finally reread lukeprog’s awesome post over at Less Wrong called How to Beat Procrastination. It’s a horrible irony—I’ve ready his post several times, always with the intention of putting some of it into practice. And I’ve always put off doing that. Until now, finally! All the things I want to do will never happen if I keep procrastinating as much as I do.

A large portion of his post is drawn from Piers Steel’s The Procrastination Equation (which is now in my Amazon cart) and is well footnoted and referenced.

In an effort to build up my rationality toolbox, I’ve transferred much of the information from the post into a series of mindmaps, the first of which is below.

The Procrastination Equation (click image for full size)

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(This is my current vision for this blog, which I will keep updated as things change.)

So far I’ve been using this blog as a general outlet for my writing (there hasn’t been very much). But I want to change that. I want more structure and more output.

I want this blog to be useful and respectable. I want it to promote rationality and critical thinking and truth-seeking. I want it to be a creative writing outlet that will contain content I can be proud of for many years. I want it to be:

Valuable

I want this blog to be useful.

I want it to be a valuable, up-to-date resource for those interested in understanding how our brains work, how to think, and how to communicate ideas. Essentially, I want to answer, “What is the best (most correct) worldview?” (This is the goal I’ve had for a very long time now, but I’m extremely bad at doing more than merely thinking about an idea. I hope this blog will help me change that.)

Structured

Blogs have an inherent flaw in that it is easy for older content to get lost along the way. Posts can be too ‘independent’ of each other, and people only tend to read the latest thing on the front page.

I want to avoid this by putting in the work required to keep things updated, to link posts together, and to have organized top-level posts that provide a needed structure and organization.

Imperfect

This needs explaining! I mean that I will never wait for the ‘perfect, absolutely correct’ answer; I’ll never wait for ‘absolute certainty’ before posting things here. Perfectionism is the enemy of done and my greatest hindrance for accomplishing anything.

Knowledge is about degrees of certainty; absolute certainty is impossible! The goal of this blog is to get good knowledge out in the open and update it when needed!

Regularly Updated

In line with the above, I want the content on this blog to be constantly updated with new evidence. I care more about know what is actually true than about feeling good about what I know. Feeling right does not equal being right.

Honest

I will strive to admit my fallibility and be honest about my uncertainty. Professing ignorance doesn’t accomplish anything, but being constantly aware of the complexity and difficulty in answering some questions will help see through the complexity, avoid bad answers, and help arrive at correct answers.

Referential

I want to stand on the shoulders of giants. A large portion of my work will not be original. Many great minds have had many great thoughts. Reinventing the wheel is a waste of time.

Broad and Deep

I want to cover many topics (biases, heuristics, neuroscience, communication skills, critical thinking, scientific method, epistemology, etc.) but I also want to delve deeply into each one, not merely cursory glances.

Truth-seeking

This is the most important. Above all, I want this post to help seek out the truth about the world. I want to carve reality at its joints. I want to understand how reality works, how I work, how you work, and what the best methods are for arriving at this truth.

I hope I can do all of these things, and I welcome all feedback, constructive criticism, and ideas.

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Existence Precedes Essence

In Existentialism is a Humanism, Jean-Paul Sartre (1905-1980) presents an accessible description of existentialism. A key idea of existentialism—and of the human condition—is that existence precedes essence.

The essence of something is its meaning, its intended purpose. A paper cutter is made to cut paper; that is its point. Humans, however, do not have an essence.

Man exists, turns up, appears on the scene, and, only afterwards, defines himself. ((All of these quotes are taken from “Existentialism is a Humanism,” by Jean-Paul Sartre.))

We have no greater purpose, no pre-determined plan, no ultimate meaning. We have, in Sartre’s words, no human nature, since there is nothing (e.g. God) outside of us which would conceive of it for us. We are simply here, and it is up to us to define ourselves.

Responsibility

Man is nothing else but what he makes of himself.

We have choice, we have subjectivity, and we choose what we will make ourselves to be; we are entirely responsible for our existence:

Thus, existentialism’s first move is to make every man aware of what he is and to make the full responsibility of his existence rest on him.

This thought is often not easily accepted. ‘Subjectivity’ is a word that riles up many. “If everything is subjective then nothing is objective; nothing is absolute! Our values are nothing more than our whims! Nothing is right or wrong! Rabble, rabble, rabble!”

Sartre replies that, “it is impossible for man to transcend human subjectivity.” He isn’t saying “I prefer subjectivity over objectivity,” he’s asking, “how can we possibly not be subjective?” Even the religious individual who believes that morality is absolute and comes from God must, at some point, choose to believe that this is the case.

Our responsibility is a blessing and a curse. It leads us to feel things like anguish, forlornness, and despair.

Anguish

We experience anguish in the face of our subjectivity, because by choosing what we are to do, we ‘choose for everyone’. When you make a decision you are saying “this is how anyone ought to behave given these circumstances.”

Many people don’t feel anguish, but this is because they are “fleeing from it.” If you don’t feel a sense of anxiety when you make decisions, it’s because you are forgetting about your “total and deep responsibility” toward yourself and all of humanity.

Forlornness

Forlornness is the idea that “God does not exist and that we have to face all the consequences of this.” There is no morality a priori. There is no absolute right or wrong. There is no ultimate judge.

This is a very distressing idea. As Dostoievsky said, “If God didn’t exist, everything would be possible [permissible].” Without God we have nothing to cling to.

“There is no determinism, man is free, man is freedom. […] We have no values or commands to turn to which legitimize our conduct.” In other words, we have no excuses, and we are entirely responsible for our decisions.

What are our values? The only way to determine them is to make a decision. At the end of the day, your ideals aren’t what matter; what matters is what you actually did.

Despair

Despair arises because we only have power to change things that are within our power to change—and there is a lot we cannot change. Reality is impartial and out of your control, except for small aspects of it here and there. We despair because we can never have full control of the future.

What Will Happen Will Happen

Tomorrow, after my death, some men may decide to set up Fascism, and the others may be cowardly and muddled enough to let them do it. Fascism will then be the human reality, so much the worse for us.

Regardless of what is right or wrong, good or bad, and regardless of whether these are absolutes or not, “things will be as man will have decided they are to be.” What will happen will happen and humanity will be entirely responsible for what it does.

Does this mean we ought to become passively accepting of what will happen? Sartre says the exact opposite.

Does that mean that I should abandon myself to quietism? No. […] Quietism is the attitude of people who say, “Let others do what I can’t do.” The doctrine I am presenting is the very opposite of quietism, since it declares, “There is no reality except in action.” Moreover, it goes further, since it adds, “Man is nothing else than his plan; he exists only to the extent that he fulfills himself; he is therefore nothing else than the ensemble of his acts, nothing else than his life. [emphasis mine]

No Excuses

This is why existentialism horrifies some people. It puts such a burden of responsibility squarely on their shoulders. They can’t stand to think they were at fault for not being a great or successful person, for having no great friendships or love. They think they are the victim of circumstances; they haven’t had the proper education, leisure, or incentives; they haven’t found the right person yet; they haven’t had the opportunity to show their greatness. Sartre, however, says that “The coward makes himself cowardly, the hero makes himself heroic.”

The artist is an artist because of the works of art he created, not because of what he could have created. The mathematician is famous for the math he did, not what he maybe could have done.

We find that this is “a harsh thought to someone whose life hasn’t been a success.” We are responsible for our successes and failures. But at the same time, this harshness forces us to face the incredibly important fact that:

Reality alone is what counts.

Sartre sees these views not as a pessimism, but as an “optimistic toughness.” Optimistic in that we are the rulers of our lives; our destiny is within our hands; we are encouraged to take action.

Sartre summarizes his idea of optimism and action in the following passage.

Thus, I think we have answered a number of the charges concerning existentialism. You see that it can not be taken for a philosophy of quietism, since it defines man in terms of action; nor for a pessimistic description of man—there is no doctrine more optimistic, since man’s destiny is within himself; nor for an attempt to discourage man from acting, since it tells him that the only hope is in his acting and that action is the only thing that enables a man to live.

Is Choice Arbitrary?

Sartre ends this piece with a further defence of subjectivism, in which I wish he had gone into a little more detail. He says people are still not satisfied with the idea of subjectivism, and objections usually come in one of the following forms:

1. “Well then, you’re able to do anything, no matter what! You’re promoting anarchy!”

But this isn’t the point. It is not possible to not choose. In not making a choice you are still choosing not to choose. Choice is inescapable; we are “condemned to be free” because we are human, whether or not we are existentialists.

2. “You can’t pass judgement on others, because there’s no reason to prefer one idea to another!”

We can still hold values, and values appear out of the choices we make. Through our actions (as an individual and as a group), we create ethics.

3. “Everything about your choice is arbitrary!”

We define ourselves through our actions, “in relationship to involvement.” And as we make ourselves—as we make choices—it is absurd to say we are choosing arbitrarily.

Summary

In summary, Sartre says that,

Existentialism is nothing else than an attempt to draw all the consequences of a coherent atheistic position. It isn’t trying to plunge man into despair at all.

Despite its atheistic position, existentialism doesn’t “wear itself out” arguing whether God exists or not.

Rather, it declares that even if God did exist, that would change nothing. There you’ve got our point of view. Not that we believe that God exists, but we think that the problem of His existence is not the issue. In this sense existentialism is optimistic, a doctrine of action.

We are the rulers of our lives, we bear the responsibility. Regardless of what you believe, this cannot be any other way.

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“Existentialism is a Humanism,” by Jean-Paul Sartre, translated by Bernard Frechtman, was originally published in 1945, and reprinted in Existentialism and Human Emotions. Copyright (C) 1985, Philosophical Library and Carol Publishing Co. Published by arrangement with Carol Publishing Group.

Taken from Existentialist Philosophy: An Introduction. 2nd Edition. Edited with Text by L. Nathan Oaklander. 1996. Prentice Hall Inc.

“Existentialism is a Humanism” is also available online here.

This is a summary of Part 1—Fundamental Techniques in Handling People—from How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.

Part 1 of Carnegie’s book, summarized here, discusses three fundamental techniques for handling people. For my original summaries of each chapter, check out [intlink id=”444″ type=”post”]Never Criticize[/intlink], [intlink id=”454″ type=”post”]Appreciation[/intlink], and [intlink id=”462″ type=”post”]Eager Want[/intlink].

Principle 1: Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.

Why? Because it won’t accomplish anything.

People do not blame themselves for anything.

All three easily happen out of habit, and so it can be hard to catch it when it happens.

Principle 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation.

The highest, most important desire is to feel important—to have meaning and purpose in our lives.

Appreciation that is not sincere or honest is pointless flattery.

Appreciation fulfills a person’s desire to have importance and meaning.

Appreciation is easier when you keep in mind what Emerson said: “Every man I meet is my superior in some way. In that, I learn from him.”

Appreciation is easier when you constantly remember all the things that already deserve it; you shouldn’t have to look far to find reasons to give it!

Principle 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want.

People do things because they want to.

People are more concerned about their wants than yours (same for you).

Give people reasons to want to help you and listen to you.

If both sides aren’t benefiting, you’re probably manipulating.

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